Monday, November 30, 2009

Today's Task


Exercise! Get moving! Work off that pumpkin pie and mashed potatoes! Work off the Christmas cookies you'll be baking next week!

Yes, now. Don't wait until January 1. I read recently that it's better to start something new (like a new exercise program) when your schedule is already in flux because that will cause you to be more deliberate and thoughtful about it. So, what better time to start an exercise program than the month in between the 2 biggest eating holidays of the year?

My usual exercise pattern is 30 minutes on the gazelle and occasionally throwing in a little strength training. I need to kick up the strength training routine now and get a more regular pattern for it built into my schedule. That's my goal for this week. What's yours?

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

What to be Thankful For

What to be Thankful For
By Louis Bromfield

Oh, Lord, I thank You for the privilege and gift of living and a world filled with beauty and excitement and variety.

I thank You for the gift of loving and being loved, for the friendliness and understanding and beauty of the animals on the farm and in the forest and marshes, for the green tress, the sound of a waterfall, the darting beauty of the trout in the brook.

I thank You for the delights of music and children, of other men’s thoughts and conversations and their books to read by the fireside or in bed with the rain falling on the roof or the snow blowing past outside the window.

I thank You for the beauties of the four seasons and of the churches and the houses built by fellow men that stand throughout the centuries as monuments to man’s aspirations and sense of beauty.

I thank You for powers of mind, which find in the universe an endless and inexhaustible source of interest and fascination, for the understanding of so many elements that make life precious.

I thank You for all the senses You have bestowed upon me and for the delights that they bring me. I thank You for my body itself, which is so wonderful and delightful a mechanism.

I thank You for the smile on the face of a woman, for the touch of a friend’s hand, for the laughter of a child, the wagging tail of a dog and the touch of his cold nose against my face.

I thank You for all these things and many more, and above all I thank You for people with all their goodness and understanding which so far outweigh their vices, their envy, their deceits.

Thank You, God, for life itself, without which the universe would have no meaning.

This poem was recited every Thanksgiving as a prayer by my great-grandmother,
Pearl Constance Cramer La Shell

Monday, November 23, 2009

Be Happy with January's Credit Card Bill

Yes, it is possible to be happy when your credit card bills arrive in the mail after Christmas. Really. How? By not overspending in November and December! It really is possible to give gifts to people who are important to you without emptying your wallet.

First of all, make a list of everyone to whom you absolutely must give a gift. Discuss with your spouse and children to see if perhaps some people on the list could be "downgraded" to a card. Decide ahead of time with your spouse how much money you have to spend on gifts this year. If it helps, put that amount of cash in an envelope and only use it when you buy presents (I realize that's not practical for everyone though). Be careful to spend only the agreed amount.

Secondly, you may have to limit the number of gifts you give to each child (or parent, or spouse). Mary Beth Whalen wrote an amazing article featured on the From the Trenches of Motherhood blog last week. It's entitled "Easy Tips on How to Buy Christmas Gifts Without Blowing Your Budget." She introduces a nifty three gift concept as well as several other cost-cutting ideas.

Thirdly, consider making some Christmas presents this year. Every grandparent, aunt, and uncle loves handmade ornaments or pictures of the children in hand-decorated photo frames. I'm making a bunch of fleece scarves and hats for people on my list this year (thanks to TOS's Nancy Carter for the directions and ideas). Check out Kaboose, All Free Crafts, and Family Fun for more fun Christmas craft and gift ideas.

Now go flip through those Black Friday sale catalogs sitting on your coffee table! Drop me a note and tell me about the best bargain Christmas gift you find this season.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

The Countdown Continues

Today's the last day! Six days until Thanksgiving! Thirty-five days until Christmas! Are you ready? I sure am! Well, I'm ready for today at least.

Today is our last day of school before having a week off at Thanksgiving. Yay! The kids aren't the only ones celebrating :-). I'm going to use next week to make sure my lesson plans for the next month are ready to go, the papers are sorted and put into the portfolios, and the desks are cleaned. Even organized homeschoolers relish a chance to have a little extra time to reorganize and refresh.

I thought I had bought everything I needed to make my share of the Thanksgiving feast, but when I got home from my super shopping trip yesterday, I realized I had forgotten to buy the creamed corn to make the corn casserole and whipped cream. Sigh. You know why I forgot those things? They somehow did not make it onto my shopping list. Even the kids know that if they want something, it has to go on the list or I don't buy it. I'm only as organized as my list! Moral of the story: make a list and check it twice before heading out to the store.

As far as the Christmas countdown, the answer is yes, I did print out my Christmas address labels and make my Christmas card list. I even have the cards already (bought at last year's Boxing Day sale). Some night when I'm watching TV instead of writing articles, I'll put the labels on the envelopes and start writing.

Q4U: What have you done this past week to prepare for any of your special countdown days?

Monday, November 16, 2009

Have an Organized Thanksgiving

10 Tips + a Bonus for An Organized Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is meant to be a time of remembrance, family and thanks, not a holiday of stress and chaos. Here are 10 easy ways to stay organized for an enjoyable, stress-free Thanksgiving Day:

1. Leave cooking and cleaning behind.
These days, many people opt to go out for Thanksgiving, instead of cooking and cleaning at home. If you're an extremely busy person, this may also work for you. If you don't want to miss the feeling of being at home, perhaps you might have the main course at a resta
urant, and later have pie and coffee at home. In addition, lots of supermarkets and restaurants offer fully cooked Thanksgiving dinners. You simply pick everything up and place it on your table ready to be served, and if you must add a personal touch, make one special dish of your own.

2. Prepare for traveling.
If you're traveling this Thanksgiving, be sure to make your packing list well ahead of time. Check items off as you're putting them into your luggage. Bring this list with you and use it to repack when you're ready to return home. By the way, I usually suggest that you travel a few days before Thanksgiving and come back a few days after the Thanksgiving rush. O
therwise, you're going to spend a lot of time in airports, on the road and in line.

3. Let's talk turkey.
First, determine
how much room you have in your freezer and refrigerator, and how many people you will be serving. Then, order your turkey. If you need more storage space, perhaps a neighbor or relative can help you out. Rather than defrosting a frozen turkey in water on Thanksgiving Day, defrost it a few days ahead in your refrigerator instead. This saves tons of time and is less messy.

4. Invite guests in a snap.
If you haven't already sent out invitations, you may consider simply calling possible guests instead. You won't have to spend a ton of time writing and mailing, and you can usually get an RSVP immediately.

5. Check your inventory.
Check your supply of chairs, tables, dishes, glasses, pots, pans, serving plates and utensils. Arrange to buy, rent or borrow anything you don't have.

6. Plan your meal.
Plan your meal from appetizers to dessert on a piece of paper. Make a list of all ingredients needed. Bring your list when you go shopping and check items off as you put them in your cart.

7. Cook ahead.
Make any meals that you can well ahead of time, and freeze them. On Thanksgiving Day, just defrost, heat and serve. You will save tons of time, plus you'll be able to join in the festivities without being stuck in the kitchen.

8. Get ready the night before.
You'll be happy you took care of a few things the night before. Set the table. Get the good silverware out of storage. Lay out your (and your kids') wardrobe.

9. Don't forget the important stuff.
Thanksgiving is a wonderful time to be thankful for health, family, friends and all that life has to offer. Some people choose to say grace. Others prefer to simply have a moment of silence before dinner and football. Still others like to make time to read a Thanksgiving Story or a poem. Make a list of the things you want to do to make the day a special one and reference your list so you don't forget them.

10. Get moving.
We all tend to put on more excess calories than usual on Thanksgiving Day. After the last piece of pie, why not go out with your family for a fun Thanksgiving walk. This promotes good health and family time simultaneously!

~ These tips are courtesy of Get Organized Now! ~

Bonus tip.
Remember to be thankful! Even those in the most trying circumstances can find something for which to be thankful. As Americans, we live in the richest country on earth and we are blessed beyond the majority of the world's population. Focus on your blessings, not on your wants this Thanksgiving. Be thinking ahead to what you want to share with your family and friends next week.

Friday, November 13, 2009

41 Days . . .

. . . until Christmas! But, who's counting? If you aren't, I bet your kids are!



What did you do this past week to prepare? Are you ready for a true confession? I know, I usually make you wait until the end of the post to see whether or not I'm going to 'fess up to anything, so here's a bonus. I didn't do a single thing this past week to get ready for Christmas. Ouch! So, what should I have done? I should have made sure that all the new addresses from last year's cards got transferred to my computer. (I usually do it as they come in, but I always double-check the following year.) Then I should have printed out my address labels. For some reason, that is always a time-consuming chore.

I did, however, get my part of the Thanksgiving menu confirmed with my sister-in-law. She recently moved to the area and insisted that we go over there for the holiday meal this year. Hhmmm, let me think: allow someone else to cook the turkey, stuffing, and mashed potatoes? Allow someone else to worry about place settings? Done deal! However, I'm still responsible for the pies, sweet potatoes, cranberry sauce (from whole cranberries), rolls, and corn casserole. Of course, I'll be helping set things out and clean up, but it won't be in my kitchen this year. So, I did do some holiday prep work, just not for Christmas.

On the off chance that you need a little boost for the final 6-week countdown, I found this nifty site entitled "Christmas Countdown: Six Weeks to an Organized Christmas." It has a free 6-week course (!) to help you be organized, or you can check out their daily messages, weekly themes, printable calendars, and more.

To help prepare your heart and attitudes for the real Reason for the Season, check out Peggie's Place daily (for the month of December) devotionals.

Leave me a note to let me know how your Christmas and Thanksgiving plans are coming along!

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

The 411 on PAPERS

Last week, I synthesized my 5-part paper series into a 45-minute talk for a Bible study group at my church. These lovely ladies are going through Karen Ehman's The Complete Guide to Getting & Staying Organized book. When Becky first asked me to talk on "Putting Paper in Its Place," I was worried that I would have trouble speaking for 10 minutes. I wasted perfectly good worry time over that! Turns out I could probably have talked for an hour at least.

As I was working on my notes and putting them into speaking order, I came up with a nifty acronym for the handout. Yes, I am well aware that giving a paper handout at a seminar on eliminating paper clutter is oxymoronish. But I just couldn't help myself! After all, how else would they become my blog followers? So, here are the notes I handed out last week to the Bible study ladies. Drop me a line to let me know what you think.

P—PLAN. Proverbs 16:3, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed.” Papers do not organize themselves. You’ve got to make a plan and commit to keeping it.

A—ARRANGE. 1 Corinthians 14:40, “But everything should be done in a fitting and orderly way.” Decide whether you want to set up a filing system or a binder system, and then do it in a systematic fashion.

P—PERSEVERE. Hebrews 12:1, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us.” The bigger the paper piles, the longer it will take to get them in order. Don’t give up! Don’t expect that you’ll be able to finish the job in a single evening, or even a single weekend. Give yourself permission to tackle it in manageable chunks of time.

E—ESSENTIAL. Isaiah 58:11, “The Lord will guide you always; he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.” Do you REALLY need to keep it? Be brutally honest with yourself and keep only what is totally necessary.

R—REGULAR. Ecclesiastes 3:1, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.” Once a day, go through your to-do bin and take care of business. Once a week, file papers from your to-file bin and pay bills in the to-be-paid bin. Once a month, weed out the papers in your temporary files and put magazine articles, etc., in a file or in a binder. Once a year, collect all the papers you need for tax purposes and weed out other papers that need to be saved for only a year.

S—SELF-DISCIPLINE for a SANE SYSTEM. Galatians 5:22–23, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.” Determine that you will gain control over your paper piles. Decide now that you will do whatever it takes to maintain that control. Ask the Lord for help to sustain your resolve to keep your paper system sane.

Helpful Web sites:
Confessions of an Organized Homeschool Mom (my blog!)
The Fly Lady
Get Organized Now!
The Binder Queen
Simplify Your Filing System

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Only 51 Days Until Christmas!

Are you ready? And, it's only 22 days until Thanksgiving! In case anyone was wondering, yes, I do make lists, and yes, I have already started. This year, I'll be making regular posts to help you all plan ahead to have a less hectic holiday season so that you can focus on the important things: the real reason for the season: Jesus, and your families and friends. So, be sure to check back with your to-do list in hand to make sure you stay on track this year.


TOS (The Old Schoolhouse) has put together a totally FREE e-book filled with tons of fabulous ideas, activities, crafts, and recipes for Thanksgiving and Christmas. Click here to get your digital holiday supplement and get started with great ideas for the upcoming season.


Our friends at Living on a Dime have posted directions for making an adorable, easy Christmas candy wreath. Now is the time to buy candy on sale; cute and fun does not have to equal pricey! As you can see from the picture, the candy does not have to be all red and green. Check out the FREE directions here. They even have video directions for the non-crafty people among us. You'll want to make one to keep and a bunch to give away!

I hope you enjoy these 2 fabulous and generous gifts to jump start your holiday season! Leave me a note to let me know how you're doing planning ahead this year.

Monday, November 2, 2009

Portfolios Demystified

Put Paper in Its Place, Part 5 (of 5)

Welcome to the final segment of the “Put Paper in Its Place” series! If you’re a homeschooler and if you’ve been reading the entire series, this last section should just help you synthesize everything. As you may already suspect, I am not an advocate of keeping every single worksheet, piece of art, or diorama produced by the little darlings. Shocking, I know. Surprisingly, neither am I an advocate for trashing everything. You’ll be pleased to know that a middle ground exists. It’s called a portfolio.

The word portfolio usually strikes fear in the heart of homeschoolers. I have to keep a what? Why would I want to keep all that stuff? But all of the shadow boxes, insect project boards, wooden villages, and authentic medieval costumes won’t fit into a binder! Yes, I have heard all these comments and more whenever the topic of portfolios comes up. Yet, I always reply that a portfolio is not only a necessary thing, but also a good thing. Let me show you how and why.

What is a portfolio, anyway? I decided to look up the word in my official Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary, Eleventh Edition to see what its normal usage is. After all, it’s a unique homeschooling word, right? At least, I thought the way that homeschoolers used the word was specific to us. I almost fell off my chair when I read this definition: “a selection of a student’s work (as papers and tests) compiled over a period of time and used for assessing performance or progress.” So much for being revolutionary. Regardless, a portfolio is a collection of your child’s scholarly achievements.
(image courtesy of www.eHow.com)

How do you gather all this stuff? Do you just grab the last three pages out of your kids’ hands on June 15 and call it good? Do you wait until your high school senior tells you that his prospective college wants to see his portfolio when he visits tomorrow? No, no, no! On the other hand, you really don’t need to have the exact same number of papers for every subject perfectly typed on the computer and color coded in a set of twelve filing boxes.

A meritorious portfolio does not include every single assignment from every single subject. It includes a representation of work completed: the best writing samples, the best test scores, the best artwork, the best notebooking pages, and the best worksheet pages. It also includes pictures of 3-D projects, field trips, and other activities that can’t be condensed into a single written document. Set aside some work from every academic year. Do it as you go through the year so that it will not be an overwhelming task at whatever point you close out records for each year. I take my children’s desk binders about once a month, choose papers to go into the portfolio, and trash the rest, unless they’re needed for a later test.

The further your child gets academically, the more you may wish to weed out some of the earlier work. You may end up with only one kindergarten handwriting page and one first grade math test by the time your child graduates. That’s fine. Don’t take all of it out, though. I’ve attended homeschool graduations where a portfolio containing selections from twelve years’ worth of work was displayed. It was really neat to see the child’s scholastic progression through the years. Your child may enjoy looking back over her progress as well.

Okay, you’re collecting all of these papers and photos (of larger projects), so where do you put all of them? The best place for a portfolio is in a binder. Yes, even for you file foxes. The main reason for this is that a portfolio should be portable. (Extra bonus points if you notice that both of these words have port as the root, from the Latin word porto, which means I carry.) It’s much easier to carry a binder into a college admission counselor’s office than it is to carry a filing cabinet. You’ll definitely want a 3-inch size for this project. Feel free to let your child choose her favorite color, or buy the kind with the clear pocket on the front and have your student design her own cover.

Put subject dividers into the binder. File the papers from earliest (kindergarten or whatever grade you started homeschooling or saving papers) to the latest within each subject. Just save one out of every ten, twenty, or even thirty pages. Save more tests than regular worksheets. Save the best essays, and choose just one of those essays to show all of the child’s work—outline, rough drafts, corrections, and final draft.

I can hear you now: Why am I making a portfolio? It sounds like way too much work, and it’s not even required by my state! Do I still need to make one even if my child is not headed to college? Obviously, some states make portfolios mandatory, but aside from that, reasons abound for making one. If you choose not to give actual grades or not to fill out a report card (or its equivalent), then a portfolio becomes even more important. A portfolio gives physical evidence that little Johnny really is a genius—just as you always thought! Portfolios preserve hard work, provide evidence for skeptical grandparents or other family members and friends, help with planning for younger siblings, and record grades and/or levels earned and completed.

If you have piles and boxes of papers, start slowly. Set up the binder first so you have a place to put the papers you’re saving. Then go through one stack or box a day, perhaps while you’re watching TV at night, and eventually you will have a lovely portfolio of your child’s academic successes. I’m cringing as I write this, but I just have to reiterate that you must keep up with a project this large or it will get away from you. If you put a few papers into the portfolio every month or so, it will be no big deal, but if you procrastinate, you’ll find it more difficult to subdue the paper piles.

I hope you’ve found this series on paper to be helpful. The more I wrote, the more I realized could be written; however, this is it for now. I’ve provided you with the tips and encouragement that you need to conquer the paper monster once and for all.

** This article first appeared on the Lesson Pathways blog. **